*•.¸☆.ǝןƃuɐ ʇuǝɹǝɟɟıp ɐ ɯoɹɟ pןɹoʍ ǝɥʇ ʇɐ ʞooן ɐ ƃuıʞɐʇ☆
A journey into the unknown with abandon.To make each day a new day. To anticipate limitless possibilities. To grow old disgracefully. To find the edge. To make a difference. To take a trip. To make wishes. To imagine. To be curious. To live. To laugh. To love. To be free.
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Thursday, July 26, 2012
Ignorance
We
do not always understand everything about the situations in our lives.
This is a fact that we have to learn to live with. It may not be easy,
but sometimes it might be easier not to know all the details before we
get into something for God. If we know them we might be too scared to
follow His will. Indeed, there are times when ignorance (in a good
sense) may well be bliss!
Friday, July 20, 2012
Edgar and Sheba Love Story (By: Ivy Congson)
The first love story I wrote this year (April 2012). Thanks to Edgar and Sheba for trusting me. It was a very rare privilege. One thing I'm sure of...they are sharing the divine love on a human perspective...God bless you both!
“Love is patient. .
.love endures all things. . .” 1 Cor. 13:4,7
This
is not another love story of boy meets girl and they fell in love, but of a
love that endures and a love that patiently waits. A love that is willing to
try and try again. For him, it took one advice to fall and one kiss to seal their
feelings. For her, there is love but afraid to tell, there is care but afraid
to show. It took one sign to occur twice
to convince her to believe that they’re
meant for each other.
He said:”It was during our
college days that I met Sheba. I was touched by her words and how she subtly
made her way into my heart. She is the
acme of my ideals in a woman. She is an answer to my prayer. I can’t let her go.
I have to try and try again to win her over.”
She said:“I was focused on
my studies because of my family. When I met Edgar, I was a girl who made her
way to reach her goals and would not allow any distractions.He is the person
who is willing to wait for me. He is God-fearing - which is what I like most in
a man.”
The story . . .
We
were in second year college in Civil Engineering (2001) at LIT when the
manifestation of love came down from the divine ladder to reside in my
heart. It was something Sheba wrote to
me, in one of our class activities that struck me. She advised me to balance my
studies and my being an athlete. She believed in me that I can do best if I
will have focus. I felt her genuine concern. I kept the yellow paper in my
wallet. Since then, she became my confidant. I openly told her my thoughts and
feelings. I became closer to her as I confide to her.
Deeply
touched by her words, I was convinced that she’s
the woman for me. All through the school days, I made myself available for her even
if she didn't need my help. Then,one December night in 2002,I
decided to reveal my feelings by giving her flowers and saying “I Love You.”
But she’s not ready. Though I can feel her feelings for
me, there is resistance on her part.I tried again after two months but still, I
got the same reaction. She tried her best to hide her feelings and to stop me. She
even pushed me to date other girls. I did so, out of desperation. But my
conviction is strong, she’s the only one for me. Deep inside me there’s a voice that kept telling me that she loves me. I
believed that she loves me but she was holding back because of her studies and
family.
But
I can’t afford to give her up. I had to try again during
our review for the board exam in 2004. One night, while we studied together, I
also reviewed my feelings for her. I stole a kiss from her and the world
stopped turning. For a moment she did not resist. I would say, that phenomenon
proved our feelings for each other. I was never wrong about us.
He
kissed me and I kissed him back. I was afraid. It cannot be. I tried my best to
drive him away. I didn’t want any distractions. The board exam came and we
both failed. I felt so downhearted and we didn’t
see each other after that. He kept sending me text messages but I did not
reply. He kept calling me but I did not say a word. I don’t want to talk to him because I thought that if we
get into a relationship I will become a hindrance to his success and him to
mine. Most of all, I want to focus my attention to my family and in taking care
of my sick father.
Then
came May 2005, Edgar finally passed the board exam. I sent him a text message
to congratulate him and to reconnect with him at the same time. A few days
later, we met again at a friend’s house and I found out that he already had a
girlfriend. I was hurt but I managed to control myself as I endured my feelings
for him.
I
was desperate. Sheba won’t talk to me so I thought that it was time to move
on.I got involved but it was the girl’s effort to keep the relationship. I did not love
her but she was an available companion to ease my loneliness. It did not last
long because my friends did not like her and I can’t deny that I’m
still patiently waiting for Sheba deep in my heart. Most of all, Sheba was
within my reach again and our communication was flourishing.
I
went to Cebu for my second review for the board exam and Edgar was also there to
further his study. We went to church together to attend masses. I felt better
having him close. Then came November 2006, as the board exam came nearer, my
feelings for him grew deeper. I was ready to say “YES” to him only to find out that he was going to
Dubai for work a few days before the exam. I was upset because I felt that he’s going to leave me and I don’t like the idea of a long distance relationship. Instead
of telling him the truth about my feelings, I managed to discourage him again. I
was hurt but I have to endure. Fortunately, I passed the board exam and
everything went well without him.
Our
communication stopped while I was in Dubai. Sheba just kept on discouraging me.
I felt again that maybe we’re not really for each other. But I can’t lose hope, instead, I became more patient with
her. January is near though and I thought that I could give her a gift.
My
birthday was coming and it came to me that I think it’s time for me to have someone. So, I prayed to God
for a sign. The man who will give me a white rose, real or picture as long as
it is a white rose, on my birthday is the right one for me. I wasn’t really thinking of Edgar but it was a general
idea. Consider it a divine accident, Edgar sent me a card with a white rose
print on the cover on my 25th birthday in January 2007! I was
stunned but still I can’t believe it was true. Maybe it’s him but not yet. It’s the same old story, we communicated and I stopped
because I felt resentful over a long distance relationship.
Life
goes on until a devastating event took place. My father diedin November 2007.
It was a time of grief but Edgar can’t
be with me, her sister told me.
I
made a promise to myself that I will always be there for her on her tough times.
When her father died I had to go home but my employer declined. So, I asked my
sister to inform her that I can’t come. But then I can’t rest thinking about her and how much I want to
console her. I prayed to God that he will help me and He did. Miraculously, my immediate
boss helped me and I was allowed to go home for 7 days. It was my birthday when
I arrived at the wake. She was surprised. It’s
a wonder that we’re always together on my birthday ever since we
met and for me it’s precious.
Edgar
stayed with me and showed his deep care for me. After the burial of my father,
he went back to Dubai to finish his contract. On January 2008, he went home for
vacation in time for my birthday. He tried again to win me and this time he
gave me a necklace for a gift and you wouldn’t
believe it. . .the box had a white rose on it! How can he give me gifts with
white rose on it? He didn’t know I was asking for a sign! God guided him, I
believed. Now I am convinced that he’s
the right one for me.
I
started courting her again. This time, with much more determination and making
sure that I wouldn’t take no for an answer. I would travel from
Hilongos by motorbike just to be with her. We had long conversations over the
phone. One night, we talked for hours and finally I got her “YES.”Only
then we realized that it was already 3:00 AM of February 7, 2008. My dream came
true that I will win a girl’s heart on a 7th day and the girl was her. Seven is
a significant number for me because it’s
my birth date. After 7 years of waiting patiently for her, she finally said yes.
Things
went well and Edgar has to go back to Dubai. We made a compromise to be near
with each other. He went ahead and I had to follow him. In Dubai, our relationship
went through a lot of circumstances that allowed us to grow. We get to know
each other better and have accepted each our flaws. We’ve seen the inner self of each other. We became
open to each other and it helps that we’re
friends. God is in the center of our relationship and we make it a point to go
to mass together. There is also acceptance, we learned to accept each other’s unique personality. We believe that acceptance
is one essential ingredient for a lasting relationship. We also helped each other
through thick and thin. Our stay in Dubai strengthened our bond.
In
February 7, 2010, I proposed marriage to her. I said, “I’m very sure about you, Sheba. I want you to be my
wife and mother to our children.”
I
can’t help my tears to fall as I said, “Yes.”
He cried too. It was a moment of bliss. I have endured and now it’s time to rejoice.
The
waiting is finally over.We are now reaping the fruits of our sacrifices. Good
things will always come to those who endure and to those who patiently wait.
You can also watch the slide show made by Sheba on youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyrjcIOoiHE&feature=share
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
10 creative ways to use lemon juice
10 creative ways to use lemon juice
1. Grease removal - A mixture of plain water and lemon juice is tough enough to bust through any grease on your kitchen appliances and counter tops.2. Disinfect and deodorize your kitchen - Is your refrigerator or cutting board really clean? Surfaces where we prepare and store food need to be clean, but this is also exactly where we don't want to use toxic chemical cleaners. Lemon juice is excellent for disinfecting these surfaces, and will also remove unpleasant stains and odors.
3. Sooth a cough - Mix some raw honey with an equal amount of lemon juice to ease your coughing. This also works well for a sore throat.
4. Enhance digestion - Fresh lemon juice in water can aid digestion during meals. It's also a great way to hydrate in the morning when you first wake up.
5. Tone your skin - Use a cotton ball to apply a light layer of diluted lemon juice to your skin. Let it sit for ten minutes and then rinse away with cool water. The lemon juice will naturally exfoliate your skin, and can also lighten dark spots and scars.
6. Clean glass - Lemon juice is just what you need to bring the sparkle back to that dull vase, coffee pot or decanter. You can also use one part lemon juice in ten parts water to shine your windows.
7. Clean and soften your hands - Lemon juice is excellent for removing stains and odors left on your hands. Lightly scrub the lemon juice into your hands with a sponge, then rinse and moisturize as usual. Your hands will feel clean, soft and fresh.
8. Remove tarnish - A simple paste of table salt and lemon juice can make tarnished copper, chrome and brass gleam again. Apply the mixture, allow it to sit for ten minutes, then rinse with warm water and buff gently to shine.
9. Get sun-kissed hair highlights - Chemicals used to lighten hair can be highly toxic. Get natural highlights by spritzing your hair with lemon juice before you go out in the sun. As an added bonus, rinsing your hair with lemon juice removes build-up and gives your locks incredible shine.
10. Clean your toilet - Toilet cleaning products are harsh and unnecessary. A mixture of borax powder and lemon juice will leave your toilet looking (and smelling) as good as new!
Learn more: http://www.naturalnews.com
Saturday, February 25, 2012
Evolutionary Transformation
Life-changing events are sometimes self-consuming but we have to remember that as human beings we need to evolve in order to experience the fullness of this temporary life. Sometimes we thought that our life is over but to our surprise it turned out to be the life that we deserve to live - a beautiful life.
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥ •.¸¸.•´¯`•.♥BC♥´´¯`•.¸¸.ღƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
sSsshh
There is wisdom in silence.
The truth is better heard in the unspoken words.
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Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Fly Me to the Moon
Fly me to the moon
And let me play among the stars
Let me see what spring is like
On Jupiter and Mars
In other words hold my hand
In other words darling kiss me
Fill my life with song
And let me sing forevermore
You are all I hope for
All I worship and adore
In other words please be true
In other words I love you
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥ •.¸¸.•´¯`•.♥BC♥´´¯`•.¸¸.ღƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Monday, February 20, 2012
Friday, February 17, 2012
Make You Feel My Love
I could offer you a warm embrace
To make you feel my love
I could hold you for a million years
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love
I would never do you wrong
I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong
Know there's nothing that I wouldn't do
No doubt in my mind where you belong
Know there's nothing that I wouldn't do
To make you feel my love
I could make you happy
I could make you happy
Make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends of the Earth for you
Go to the ends of the Earth for you
To make you feel my love
♥BC♥
So Far Away
If I could only work this life out my way
I'd rather spend it being close to you
But you're so far away
Doesn't anybody stay in one place anymore
It would be so fine to see your face at my door
♥BC♥
Treeless
•♥•.¸¸.•´¯`•♥I'm like a leaf without a tree...withering...where is my tree? The tree that will give me nourishment and life. The tree that will provide me with the strength that will hold me close. Before the wind will blow me away and the rain will wash me away, please find me my tree. . .and let me taste the sweet embrace of your mighty branch. •♥•.¸¸.•´¯`•♥
♥BC♥
u'r my missing pc
you're my missing piece...
you complete me...
if i can't have you for myself,
then i'd rather be incomplete
than fill your place in my heart
with another piece.
♥BC♥
My Dream
Love makes me fall asleep and takes me to a mystical place called dream.
A dream is the manifestation of my desires that didn't happen when my eyes were open.
"If I want to be with you, I will close my eyes and dream of you."
♥BC♥
Going stronger @ 39
Happy 39th Wedding Anniversary Ma and Pa!
Rebecca and Domingo
February 17, 1973
They are my parents. I am happy for them. They are the true living witnesses of LOVE that is TRUE.
That is why I believe so much in marriage because I've seen how wonderful it is from them.
That serving your husband and children is great joy.
I wish them good health and more happy years together.
I love you so much Mama Becky and Papa Minggoy!
♥BC♥
Thursday, February 16, 2012
HUMILITY Hi-Way
HUMILITY - To lower oneself.
It stands on the conviction that one has no reason to treat anyone disrespectfully. True humility is accepting the reality, that i have nothing without or within me that I can call my own, my true property. And if I have nothing, what can I stand on from which to treat others with much condescension?
O Jesus, meek and humble of heart,
Hear me.
Hear me.
From the desire of being esteemed,
*
From the desire of being loved,*
From the desire of being extolled,*
From the desire of being honored,*
From the desire of being praised,*
From the desire of being preferred to others,*
From the desire of being consulted,*
From the desire of being approved,*
From the desire of being loved,*
From the desire of being extolled,*
From the desire of being honored,*
From the desire of being praised,*
From the desire of being preferred to others,*
From the desire of being consulted,*
From the desire of being approved,*
*Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being humiliated,*
From the fear of being despised,*
From the fear of suffering rebukes,*
From the fear of being calumniated,*
From the fear of being forgotten,*
From the fear of being ridiculed,*
From the fear of being wronged,*
From the fear of being suspected,*
*Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being despised,*
From the fear of suffering rebukes,*
From the fear of being calumniated,*
From the fear of being forgotten,*
From the fear of being ridiculed,*
From the fear of being wronged,*
From the fear of being suspected,*
*Deliver me, O Jesus.
That others may be loved more than I,
*
That others may be esteemed more than I, *
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease, *
That others may be chosen and I set aside, *
That others may be praised and I go unnoticed, *
That others may be preferred to me in everything, *
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should, *
*Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be esteemed more than I, *
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease, *
That others may be chosen and I set aside, *
That others may be praised and I go unnoticed, *
That others may be preferred to me in everything, *
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should, *
*Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
This VERSES may help you on your journey towards remembering the forgotten virtue of HUMILITY.
Psalms 37:11
But the meek will inherit the land and enjoy great peace
Psalms 138:6
Though the LORD is on high, he looks upon the lowly, but the proud he knows from afar.
Psalms 147:6
The LORD sustains the humble but casts the wicked to the ground.
Psalms 149:4
For the LORD takes delight in his people; he crowns the humble with salvation.
Proverbs 3:34
He mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble.
Proverbs 8:13
To fear the LORD is to hate evil; I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech.
Proverbs 10:8
The wise in heart accept commands, but a chattering fool comes to ruin.
Proverbs 11:2
When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.
Proverbs 15:31;33
He who listens to a life-giving rebuke will be at home among the wise.The fear of the LORD teaches a man wisdom, and humility comes before honor.
Proverbs 16:18-19
Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Better to be lowly in spirit and among the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud.
Proverbs 18:12
Before his downfall a man's heart is proud, but humility comes before honor.
Proverbs 22:4
Humility and the fear of the LORD bring wealth and honor and life.
Proverbs 25:9
He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way.
Proverbs 29:23
A man's pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor.
Isaiah 57:15
For this is what the high and lofty One says--he who lives forever, whose name is holy: "I live in a high and holy place, but also with him who is contrite and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite.
Micah 6:8
He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.
Matthew 23:12
For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.
Mark 9:35
Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, "If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all."
Romans 12:16
Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
Ephesians 4:2
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
Colossions 3:12
Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
James 4:6
But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says:"God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble."
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Habakkuk 2:3
Verse:
“For the vision still has its time, presses on to fulfillment, and will not disappoint; if it delays, wait for it, it will surely come, it will not be late.” –Habakkuk 2:3
Reflection:
God’s word is true and He is faithful to fulfill His promises. The waiting might be long but surely it will come. At our end, we just have to be faithful too and patiently wait for his divine will to take place. Just hold on and wait in prayerful endurance for it’s only a matter of time. God’s time is always perfect.
Prayer:
“Lord, grant that I may able to press on and wait for things to happen in your perfect time. Amen.”
♥BC
“For the vision still has its time, presses on to fulfillment, and will not disappoint; if it delays, wait for it, it will surely come, it will not be late.” –Habakkuk 2:3
Reflection:
God’s word is true and He is faithful to fulfill His promises. The waiting might be long but surely it will come. At our end, we just have to be faithful too and patiently wait for his divine will to take place. Just hold on and wait in prayerful endurance for it’s only a matter of time. God’s time is always perfect.
Prayer:
“Lord, grant that I may able to press on and wait for things to happen in your perfect time. Amen.”
♥BC
PUZZLE
If I have to describe you in one word, you are a PUZZLE...because you make me go crazy figuring out how to solve you and how to put you together...especially when there's a missing piece. ♥BC
Tsup!
♥ ♥ ♥ Kissing is the most sensual thing in life that leaves you speechless and makes you reach heaven without dying. ♥ ♥ ♥
The Tale of Rapunzel
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Thank you, Ate Rhiza! ♥
Thank you, Ate Rhizza Romero-Cabagnot! ♥
You're one person who knows me too well and I always appreciate your acts of love for me. Stay sweet and thoughtful. Luv yah!
My Hearty [♥] [♥] [♥] Valentine Dinner
Because I want to live healthy, I went "hearty-fruity" on my V-day dinner. Well, maybe I'm the most innovative person alive! :-) I just wanted to enjoy my food. I love food. So instead of eating on the rush, I carefully prepared my sculpted-heart-shaped-mangoes. Did you know that I'm a trying-hard chef since high school? Now you know! Tee hee!
That was my dinner date with myself. V-day is not only a day for lovers but also a day to do what you love and eat what you love. Whatever you do, whenever (V-day or every day), always do what you love and you will be happy. It's only in the mind. So, you better set your mind to happiness mode frequently or else you will miss the fun. "As a man thinketh, so is he."-♥BC
I'll Never Find Another You
This song is dedicated to my b-blue valentine...you know who you are...
There's a new world somewhere
They call The Promised Land
And I'll be there some day
If you will hold my hand
I still need you there beside me
No matter what I do
For I know I'll never find another you
There is always someone
For each of us they say
And you'll be my someone
For ever and a day
I could search the whole world over
Until my life is through
But I know I'll never find another you
It's a long, long journey
So stay by my side
When I walk through the storm
You'll be my guide, be my guide
If they gave me a fortune
My treasure would be small
I could lose it all tomorrow
And never mind at all
But if I should lose your love, dear
I don't know what I'll do
For I know I'll never find another you
[Instrumental Interlude]
But if I should lose your love, dear
I don't know what I'll do
For I know I'll never find another you
Another you, another you
All About Love
All About Love
Love is the most absorbing subject in existence. From ages to ages, we have different views about love. We put meaning to it as to how we perceive it. We view love as something that is of different kinds. But the truth is, there is only one kind of love – the love that comes from God. There are many and varied manifestations but only a single reality. God is love and love is God. “Love God with all your heart and soul. Love your neighbor as yourself.” It is only when we realize this truth that we can fully experience the love that is everlasting. However, that is on a divine perspective and only few people have grasped its true value. In our modern and tormented world, love has become the most misconstrued word. It becomes an expression not affection.
I don’t want to sound “KJ” (kill joy) with my literary masterpiece today. It is Valentine Season and I know that we are too concentrated on the love that is pre-eminent to us. The love that stands out amid the multiplicity of its meanings, the love shared between man and woman. Hmmm…I know this is the most exciting thing to talk about and I bet you can’t wait to read this through. Well, in my not so humble opinion, I would say that I am the most “in-love” woman alive. I love deeply and I show it. Love is what keeps me going and it just have to be that way. It becomes my reality. No matter how painful my experience, it cannot discourage me to love others more or a particular man – in the right time and in God’s provision! Oops…we’re not talking about my life here… Let’s just talk about love.
Love is the ultimate value of existence. It is much, much more powerful than us - mighty and pervading. To give out this love is to share limitless possibilities. To love a special someone is to give oneself and it is an emotional experience that often takes us through a roller-coaster ride. When opportunity chooses us to feel this love, it will come and enter into our emotional system without even knocking. Like there’s a virus that corrupted our system. It is hard to decode and we often say we were caught off-guard. The firewall was turned-off. We will only realize we’re involved when we feel a sudden breathing discomfort. Didn’t we always say that seeing the object of our affection makes our heart skip a beat? And then we feel like our heart wants to jump out from our chest? Such a wonderful feeling of heaven and we say we are “in-love.”
“Being in-love” is love at its most intense, and personally focused in a very special way. We talk of “falling in love,” as if it was something into which we are precipitated against our will, like falling into a pond. It is a well-established phenomenon, no less surprising as a scientific fact than as a personal experience. Lovers are obsessed by the image of the loved ones, to whom they ascribe every virtue and merit; outside observers of the phenomenon speak of the lover’s “madness” or “blindness.”
For the lover, merely to see the beloved is to feast the soul; and to touch her (or him) is bliss. But when the two souls can interpenetrate, an even more magical state is achieved. The sense of “pouring out” of our essential being to another is one of the hallmarks of being in love.
Falling in love is irrational. The emotions involved are so violent as to override our reason. We feel that we are allowed to succumb into something, even the forbidden. We accept nothing but our feelings no matter the compromise. Luckily for the human race, love often chooses aright. Then reason and experience may give it eyes to see, and may transform a transient madness into the highest and most enduring sanity. Then the lover experiences a heightened vitality and finds new significance in life.
However, falling in love is just a preliminary period that we all go through. The real thing is sustaining the love amid the zigzags and the twists and turns of life. To fall is without much effort but to withstand it requires a lot of patience and understanding. Love is to be nurtured. For the young love, it is a memorable experience and sometimes a lesson to be learned. For the mature love, it is a responsibility that cannot be taken for granted. It is something that we need to be reminded constantly about our commitment.
To love is a happy thing. There is no reason to hide it. There is nothing more sublime than the love that is being expressed to the beloved. I know that today, the Valentine’s Day, is one special occasion that we all celebrate. Love during this season, like an earthquake, is raised to its highest intensity. I can only feel the “kilig moments” of lovers on this day. It is a big day to upraise and strengthen the connection and express it ultimately. Not only with bouquets of flowers and boxes of chocolates but with the intangible gifts of time and care. As a woman, the most significant expression of love that I can give is my unconditional service and undivided attention to my man. To take into account that to love is an active concern for the good of the other. To relentlessly seek the good of the beloved and to be always willing to sacrifice. No amount of material gain can surpass such gesture. It is the most essential thing. If only people will understand that truth, then Valentine’s Day is not just February 14th but every day of the year.
Whatever is your story, cherish the love you have. Whatever the circumstance, just always choose to love and love more. Love should not cease on a stressful situation but will always choose to persevere and continue to hope. “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things. Love never fails.” 1Corinthians 13:7-8 (NAB)
I know of a unique love story that may inspire you and give you hope. It is about a combination of love that endures and a love that is sweeter the second time around. Only a quick view because I don’t think there’s so much space left on the pages. There were young lovers who loved each other dearly but because of some inevitable interference, they didn’t end up at the altar. The man married someone else and the woman remained single until she grew old. The man had his family and his life was good. The woman, though she was left alone, also lived a good life and of course she wasn’t the type who would flirt with his ex. LOL She was distant from the man for many years – let’s say 50. Then the man’s wife died and that is when the part two of their love affair begun. They get back together and they got married. Though they were already very advanced in age, you can see from the looks of their faces that they were truly happy. It was a big event in our place. I really don’t know how the woman endured her love but I believe that she is a woman of great courage. I would say that her waiting paid off and that should tell us something.
Love is indispensable and at its fullest can include an enormous range of emotions and sentiments. It can combine humility with pride, passion with peace, self-assertion with self-surrender; it can reconcile violence of feeling with tenderness; it can make us hope for the unattainable.
As for me, love is not for the fearful, the timid and the weak but for the strong and the courageous. It takes courage to love. It is like taking a huge leap into the unknown and no matter how you land, you could not have done otherwise.
“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1Corinthians13:13 (NIV)
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